He is the one that had been the happiest person when you were born.
Daddy, Papa, Tatay....there are so many different way to call our fathers but there is always a question between a father and a son.
When is the last time that you`ve say you love Him? When will you say it again? When will show to Him that you Love Him? When it is too late and He can`t hear it anymore?
I was once a black sheep maybe one of the worsts son that you`ll ever meet,I didn`t listen to whatever my dad says to me...moments, days, weeks, months And years pass. I did not spend a day with my dad even a little hour, not until my mom get`s home from work abroad.
And my mother only comes home every 2 years...........and then i`ve graduated from High School my dad did not attend my commencement rights only my tita and my cousin come with me with my tito (he was my dad`s brother) I was so mad that day cause everyone of my batch mate have their parents beside them. As I look the photographs of that day I always think that I`m not important to Him (aside from my Mom I understand that she`s so far) so I only talk with my dad when I need money.
And then my Mom came back from abroad the year 2005 it was December early morning at 4:00am. I heared my mom calling me. Then i saw my dad dirt on their bed suffering from cardiac arrest as I assist him through the bathroom suddenly he feels well then he goes back to the bed, he sits and then my mom and tita gave him a glass of water he drink a few then he starts trembling again as my mom decide to take him to the hospital.
We arrive at the hospital my Tito Jojong and My Tita Luz came too after we came 10 minutes past, I was waiting outside the E.R. smoking a cigar as I enter the room to check what`s happening as I touch my dads feet it was as cold as ice.
That is the last time that i said to myself that "I love you dad please wake up" as I look at my mom and saw her crying and my Tito tap my shoulder I knew that my dad past away while I`m outside not knowing that he is already dead.
Now I`m so sorry for myself cause i cannot say i love him face to face anymore.
"I write this blog in memory of my father this Father`s day."
"I miss you dad!"
"Back when I was a child, before life removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high and dance with my mother and me and then
Spin me around ‘til I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure I was loved
If I could get another chance, another walk, another dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
How I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
When I and my mother would disagree
To get my way, I would run from her to him
He’d make me laugh just to comfort me
Then finally make me do just what my mama said
Later that night when I was asleep
He left a dollar under my sheet
Never dreamed that he would be gone from me
If I could steal one final glance, one final step, one final dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
‘Cause I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
Sometimes I’d listen outside her door
And I’d hear how my mother cried for him
I pray for her even more than me
I pray for her even more than me
I know I’m praying for much too much
But could you send back the only man she loved
I know you don’t do it usually
But dear Lord she’s dying
To dance with my father again
Every night I fall asleep and this is all I ever dream."
"I LOVE YOU DADDY!"
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Father & Son
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Having a Hard day at school? Need some Beer?
Most of the college and even those high school student private school or even public school,
they are all fond of cutting their classes just to hang out with their friends in some place where they can get "Drink, Drunk, & Drunken" you know what I mean, leaving school just to drink beer or any alcoholic beverage with their friends.
This are the vices that teenagers now a days are frequently doing they chit-chat outside the campus or even inside to talk about their drinking session later after their current class.
"How will you learn?" this is the question that is always ask by parents or guardians of the student that is caught after the said incidence. Maybe they learn that drinking is cool, and after drinking their favorite alcoholic drink they are all out of them selves....hanging their drowzy heads over their lame bodies
walking zigzag don`t know if they are going the right way home.
Some of us college students in the LYCEUM of the PHILIPPINES UNIVERSITY in Intramuros,
Manila are heavy drinkers even us have groups we named this group "TAKATAK" while the other group is named "LDT/ Lyceum Drinking Team".("why didn't they named it PLDT instead of LDT dadagdagan na lang ng P ayaw pa para habang lasing sila pwede na sila magkabit ng mga cable para sa land line phone")
Takatak is a 'kanto word for Cigarette vendor" we all gather up in our "tambayan" where our meeting place is first we all just hang out there smoke some cigar then afterwards when someone open up "Mars dami natin ngayon ahh....You know what to do diba?" sometimes we drink in "KAGA" that one is located in what we called "BG/ Beer Garden" cause there are 4 bars in the garden that 4 bars is well knowned for the students around INTRAMUROS Majority of it are Lyceans, Letranites & Mapuan`s. All 3 universities gather up there just to drink after or even on school hours no matter what "basta magkayayaan"
Sometimes not only groups attend the drinking session in B.G. fraternities also attend I named them: Tau gamma phi, Alpha Kappa Rho & Magic five. and you know what is the product of the 3 organizations that had meet in one place at the same time....RIOTS or well knowned as gang war although there are no deaths reported about this freaking riot but the next day the people that had been involved in the previous fight has a bothered face "you know what I mean?" (basag ang mukha, may sugat, bali ang buto, may pilay) these consequences affects the stupidity of these peoples right?
Now I will name to you the 4 drinking bar that i`ve said a little earlier they are : IMJ, KAGA, HELAS, i don`t know the name of the remaining bar. But there are 3 more bars around the vicinity of Intramuros I know the 2 names one is what they call "REHAS" and the other one is "MAGS/ Magallanes" (pic on the right is the way going to mags) those are the bars around intramuros.
What do this universities do about this widely known problem around this universities?
I know that they know all about this, but in the other hand they still playing deaf while the students are so happy knowing that this bars are legal and they will not be penalize by the law?
(take note: students may vary their clothings according to their schedule but frequently they are drinking at the bars while wearing their school uniforms)
they are all fond of cutting their classes just to hang out with their friends in some place where they can get "Drink, Drunk, & Drunken" you know what I mean, leaving school just to drink beer or any alcoholic beverage with their friends.This are the vices that teenagers now a days are frequently doing they chit-chat outside the campus or even inside to talk about their drinking session later after their current class.
"How will you learn?" this is the question that is always ask by parents or guardians of the student that is caught after the said incidence. Maybe they learn that drinking is cool, and after drinking their favorite alcoholic drink they are all out of them selves....hanging their drowzy heads over their lame bodies
walking zigzag don`t know if they are going the right way home.
Some of us college students in the LYCEUM of the PHILIPPINES UNIVERSITY in Intramuros,
Manila are heavy drinkers even us have groups we named this group "TAKATAK" while the other group is named "LDT/ Lyceum Drinking Team".("why didn't they named it PLDT instead of LDT dadagdagan na lang ng P ayaw pa para habang lasing sila pwede na sila magkabit ng mga cable para sa land line phone")Takatak is a 'kanto word for Cigarette vendor" we all gather up in our "tambayan" where our meeting place is first we all just hang out there smoke some cigar then afterwards when someone open up "Mars dami natin ngayon ahh....You know what to do diba?" sometimes we drink in "KAGA" that one is located in what we called "BG/ Beer Garden" cause there are 4 bars in the garden that 4 bars is well knowned for the students around INTRAMUROS Majority of it are Lyceans, Letranites & Mapuan`s. All 3 universities gather up there just to drink after or even on school hours no matter what "basta magkayayaan"
Sometimes not only groups attend the drinking session in B.G. fraternities also attend I named them: Tau gamma phi, Alpha Kappa Rho & Magic five. and you know what is the product of the 3 organizations that had meet in one place at the same time....RIOTS or well knowned as gang war although there are no deaths reported about this freaking riot but the next day the people that had been involved in the previous fight has a bothered face "you know what I mean?" (basag ang mukha, may sugat, bali ang buto, may pilay) these consequences affects the stupidity of these peoples right?
Now I will name to you the 4 drinking bar that i`ve said a little earlier they are : IMJ, KAGA, HELAS, i don`t know the name of the remaining bar. But there are 3 more bars around the vicinity of Intramuros I know the 2 names one is what they call "REHAS" and the other one is "MAGS/ Magallanes" (pic on the right is the way going to mags) those are the bars around intramuros.
What do this universities do about this widely known problem around this universities?
I know that they know all about this, but in the other hand they still playing deaf while the students are so happy knowing that this bars are legal and they will not be penalize by the law?
(take note: students may vary their clothings according to their schedule but frequently they are drinking at the bars while wearing their school uniforms)
Fraternity
What is a "FRATERNITY"?
The true meaning of fraternity: a social club for male undergraduates :A fraternity (Latin frater : "brother") is a Brotherhood, though the term usually connotes a distinct or formal organization ("http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternity") is fraternity really needed in college or even in high school male students? Now a days having a fraternity is a must! Some male students says. Maybe their right, maybe their wrong. Who knows?
Teenagers now have their own fraternity and one of the very well known fraternity here in the Philippines is the "Tau Gamma Phi / Treskelion" I have a cousin that had joined Tau Gamma Phi in the year 1995 he tells stories about the hardships or Initiations that he had undergone before he became a fully pledge member of that fraternity and
one of those hardships that he said is "hazing".
Hazing is a one form of initiation the master initiator or M.I. holds a wood use for hitting
the legs of the Neophyte/s ,and until he complete the required number of hit that is only the time that the M.I. will stop hitting the Neophyte/s the wood that the M.I. holds is called "Paddle". (the pic on the right side is the actual initiation rights)
In another side the high school students have their own version of fraternity and they calls it a gang. The member of the gang is called a "Gangster/s". Gangs is consist of the Founder & the members not like the fraternities they only form the group for their vices, like smoking, drinking alcoholic beverages, sex,drugs & mostly riots or fights.
(pictures of the well known gang in the Philippines TBS)
They idolized the American black Hip Hop community, as their fashion, culture and even musics.
In other hand they also have their own kind of initiation called the "30 second massacre" the members including the founder will beat the neophyte with punches and kicks to their head and their body.
Now how does the school and other university respond to this kind of initiation thing that the Filipino teenagers are getting involved to? Do their parents allowed this kind of setting for their life? Because if you joined one of this Fraternities or Gangs there is no quitting no turning back.
I have a simple message to our Filipino teenagers who are not yet a member or wanting to join this kind of organizations, "think 100 times before joining this org. or else you will end up with nothing."
SELF CONFESSION
I am also a member of a Fraternity here in the Philippines "Phi Lambda Epsilon" I wanted to quit. But how? It`s too late now.
The true meaning of fraternity: a social club for male undergraduates :A fraternity (Latin frater : "brother") is a Brotherhood, though the term usually connotes a distinct or formal organization ("http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternity") is fraternity really needed in college or even in high school male students? Now a days having a fraternity is a must! Some male students says. Maybe their right, maybe their wrong. Who knows?
Teenagers now have their own fraternity and one of the very well known fraternity here in the Philippines is the "Tau Gamma Phi / Treskelion" I have a cousin that had joined Tau Gamma Phi in the year 1995 he tells stories about the hardships or Initiations that he had undergone before he became a fully pledge member of that fraternity and
one of those hardships that he said is "hazing". 
Hazing is a one form of initiation the master initiator or M.I. holds a wood use for hitting
the legs of the Neophyte/s ,and until he complete the required number of hit that is only the time that the M.I. will stop hitting the Neophyte/s the wood that the M.I. holds is called "Paddle". (the pic on the right side is the actual initiation rights)
In another side the high school students have their own version of fraternity and they calls it a gang. The member of the gang is called a "Gangster/s". Gangs is consist of the Founder & the members not like the fraternities they only form the group for their vices, like smoking, drinking alcoholic beverages, sex,drugs & mostly riots or fights.
(pictures of the well known gang in the Philippines TBS)They idolized the American black Hip Hop community, as their fashion, culture and even musics.
In other hand they also have their own kind of initiation called the "30 second massacre" the members including the founder will beat the neophyte with punches and kicks to their head and their body.
Now how does the school and other university respond to this kind of initiation thing that the Filipino teenagers are getting involved to? Do their parents allowed this kind of setting for their life? Because if you joined one of this Fraternities or Gangs there is no quitting no turning back.
I have a simple message to our Filipino teenagers who are not yet a member or wanting to join this kind of organizations, "think 100 times before joining this org. or else you will end up with nothing."
SELF CONFESSION
I am also a member of a Fraternity here in the Philippines "Phi Lambda Epsilon" I wanted to quit. But how? It`s too late now.
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